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Working with Natalie Svider last week, I submitted a response to the Los Angeles Business Journal’s question, “If more shops open on Seventh, could it become a destination comparable to Santa Monica’s Third Street?”
Opening the paper on Monday revealed that my response had been included. Yay. Albeit with the wrong last name. Boo.
Check out my response below and let me know if you agree, disagree or maybe don’t care at all.
After watching the Ryder Cup last week, my dad felt inspired to address an email to my brother and I expressing something he has always made clear to us; golf is the greatest sport of all time. Not because of what you win or how you play, but because there may be nothing on this planet that brings out the real qualities of a person so effectively. I couldn’t agree more, but read check out his words below and tell me if you do too.
My thoughts on golf.
You boys know this, but for some reason I wanted to write it down for you.
I don’t believe there is another sport, activity, game or hobby that can reveal so much about who you are than the game of golf.
Think about it.
While playing, you experience joy, frustration, anger, anxiety, apathy, disappointment, hope, regret, surprise, embarrassment, etc.
Maybe all of those on the 1st hole!
But what I like best is what that reveals about yourself, in how you respond to or react to those emotions. It also reveals how your playing partner reacts to those feelings, with the bonus of seeing how you both react to each other. And of course, just how competitive a nature you have and how you deal with pressure.
You have the challenge of playing a game with a self imposed penalty system. An honor system, whereby you bring your own character into play. Do you count that last shot your partner may not have seen?
What else makes golf unique? I can’t think of many other activities that leave you no one but yourself to blame or credit for your success or failure. There’s no teammate to point fingers at and no referee to fault. We’re left with just blaming the “game.” “Golf – a good walk ruined.”
You hit a bad shot, you live with it. We’ve all done it, but what happens next is what makes the game so interesting. How do you recover and how do you respond? Was it just poor club selection or not factoring the wind? Have you lost all confidence?
I’ve played golf, off and on, for over 46 years. I’ve had hundreds of playing partners. I still learn more about a person I may have known for years after playing just a few holes of golf with them. Bowling, softball or tennis may be more social sports, but they are nowhere near as revealing.
There are always going to be guys who swear, throw clubs, complain about every shot–even the good ones.
Then there’s the guy who’s encouraging, laughs, seems to enjoy life and is just plain fun to be around. Which leads me to the last point. All of the things you learn about yourself and your partners are applicable to the work place.
Forget a job interview, take someone out for a round of golf. You can feel confident you’ll have a pretty good idea of what that person is made of. And they’ll learn a lot about you.
Agreed?
Dad
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For 20 years I have been a student. From pre-kindergarten (which always sounded so overkill to me), to elementary, to intermediate, to high school, to college (the wrong one), to college (the right one), and one more time to college (the last one). It’s been a long process with plenty of ups and downs and I am ecstatic to be completed with it.
I anticipate moving on to the next phase of my life, one devoid of required reading and appropriate citations. One that will allow me to showcase my talents and steer my own path. One that will reward me for going above and beyond with a dollar figure next to my name instead of a plus sign next to a letter. I am grateful for the opportunities I have had to educate myself and that there are systems in place to fund higher education for anybody who wants it bad enough. Now its time to start making it pay for me.







